1. What do you feel is the difference between sexy and erotic?
Presentation and audience. It's like the difference between a lady and a woman.
2. Do you believe there is one right person (i.e. soul mate) for you out there in the world, or that there can be many different potential mates that you could live blissfully with?
I believe both are true. However, I hope me and my right person find each other so we can have more than blissful cohabitation (more like fidelity and forever) rather than bliss. Bliss sounds too much like blind, fleeting, childish happiness. I want my fidelity and forever.
3. Do you need to hear "I love you" or similar words on a regular basis from your partner?
Absolutely. Words of affirmation all day every day. And I give as good as I get.
4. What feeling do you have the most difficulty expressing?
Hurt. Not that "you forgot to call me hurt" that hurt to the very core of my being hurt. That need a couch hurt. That I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy hurt. That's the hurt I have difficulty expressing. . . . especially to the intended person.
5. What is worse - physical, mental or cyber cheating?
None of it is pleasant or ideal or anticipated, but mental (read: emotional) cheating is the most damaging/difficult to recover from in my opinion.
Bonus (as in optional): The Kinsey scale attempts to describe a person's sexual history or episodes of their sexual activity at a given time. It uses a scale from 0, meaning exclusively heterosexual, to 6, meaning exclusively homosexual. Where are you - TODAY - on the scale?
Zero. Unlike Callie, I meant it when I say "I am a HUGE fan of penis!"
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
TMI Tuesday
1. What do you feel is the difference between sexy and erotic?
Presentation and audience. It's like the difference between a lady and a woman.
2. Do you believe there is one right person (i.e. soul mate) for you out there in the world, or that there can be many different potential mates that you could live blissfully with?
I believe both are true. However, I hope me and my right person find each other so we can have more than blissful cohabitation (more like fidelity and forever) rather than bliss. Bliss sounds too much like blind, fleeting, childish happiness. I want my fidelity and forever.
3. Do you need to hear "I love you" or similar words on a regular basis from your partner?
Absolutely. Words of affirmation all day every day. And I give as good as I get.
4. What feeling do you have the most difficulty expressing?
Hurt. Not that "you forgot to call me hurt" that hurt to the very core of my being hurt. That need a couch hurt. That I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy hurt. That's the hurt I have difficulty expressing. . . . especially to the intended person.
5. What is worse - physical, mental or cyber cheating?
None of it is pleasant or ideal or anticipated, but mental (read: emotional) cheating is the most damaging/difficult to recover from in my opinion.
Bonus (as in optional): The Kinsey scale attempts to describe a person's sexual history or episodes of their sexual activity at a given time. It uses a scale from 0, meaning exclusively heterosexual, to 6, meaning exclusively homosexual. Where are you - TODAY - on the scale?
Zero. Unlike Callie, I meant it when I say "I am a HUGE fan of penis!"
Presentation and audience. It's like the difference between a lady and a woman.
2. Do you believe there is one right person (i.e. soul mate) for you out there in the world, or that there can be many different potential mates that you could live blissfully with?
I believe both are true. However, I hope me and my right person find each other so we can have more than blissful cohabitation (more like fidelity and forever) rather than bliss. Bliss sounds too much like blind, fleeting, childish happiness. I want my fidelity and forever.
3. Do you need to hear "I love you" or similar words on a regular basis from your partner?
Absolutely. Words of affirmation all day every day. And I give as good as I get.
4. What feeling do you have the most difficulty expressing?
Hurt. Not that "you forgot to call me hurt" that hurt to the very core of my being hurt. That need a couch hurt. That I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy hurt. That's the hurt I have difficulty expressing. . . . especially to the intended person.
5. What is worse - physical, mental or cyber cheating?
None of it is pleasant or ideal or anticipated, but mental (read: emotional) cheating is the most damaging/difficult to recover from in my opinion.
Bonus (as in optional): The Kinsey scale attempts to describe a person's sexual history or episodes of their sexual activity at a given time. It uses a scale from 0, meaning exclusively heterosexual, to 6, meaning exclusively homosexual. Where are you - TODAY - on the scale?
Zero. Unlike Callie, I meant it when I say "I am a HUGE fan of penis!"
Tuesday, September 9, 2008
TMI Tuesday
Two words: parallel lives
1. Describe the perfect date for YOURSELF... what you would enjoy most.
I had this conversation just a few minutes ago. Since I haven't had an "adult date", I'm open to almost anything. Whatever the date entails, I would want good, free-flowing conversation, laughter, good food and quality time doing a shared activity. I'm a simple gal.
2. Do you lean more toward being submissive or dominant?
I teeter between the two. I have no problem being submissive when we have a common goal. And then I might be dominant, just to make sure I get what I want.
3. What do you usually wear to bed?
Tee and panties/boy shorts/boxers
4. Have you ever seen a counselor?
Not recently
5. Lights on or off?
No matter. I'm not focusing on the lights.
Bonus: Have you or a partner ever faked an orgasm?
Quite difficult for a man to do that. I haven't faked. I'd rather stop or take over.
1. Describe the perfect date for YOURSELF... what you would enjoy most.
I had this conversation just a few minutes ago. Since I haven't had an "adult date", I'm open to almost anything. Whatever the date entails, I would want good, free-flowing conversation, laughter, good food and quality time doing a shared activity. I'm a simple gal.
2. Do you lean more toward being submissive or dominant?
I teeter between the two. I have no problem being submissive when we have a common goal. And then I might be dominant, just to make sure I get what I want.
3. What do you usually wear to bed?
Tee and panties/boy shorts/boxers
4. Have you ever seen a counselor?
Not recently
5. Lights on or off?
No matter. I'm not focusing on the lights.
Bonus: Have you or a partner ever faked an orgasm?
Quite difficult for a man to do that. I haven't faked. I'd rather stop or take over.
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
TMI Tuesday
Because it's Tuesday of course! And I need to something to do while I run this report. . . Yes, I'm TMIing at work.
TMI Tuesday #150
1. When was the last time someone hit on you? What went down?
Sunday. Not a damn thing. He is married and just joking (well I'm not taking him seriously) and she was a lesbian (not even an option.)
2. If you were single and could be with any one person, who would it be (thinking singer/actor or someone famous here, but whatever)?
I am single and the "whatever" person just needs to clear his damn calendar! (am I angry? lol) But I digress. Will Smith but Jada must stay home. Morris Chestnut and Jaime Foxx (individually) but only so I can lay my head on their chest after. I have a thing for broad chests.
3. Have you ever had done anything sexual in your office or your place of employment?
Not while I was employed there and that's ALL I'mma say about that!
4. Do you apologize when you make a mistake? How do you react when someone calls you out?
Usually. I've been a big girl about that lately. If I'm called out and it's reasonable, I'll put up a bit of a defensive/explanation, but I end up apologizing, trying to get the other person to see my point and making up someway. I'm not above being wrong. Just doesn't happen that often *smirk*
5. Top or bottom? Bonus (as in optional):
If the bottom is the bottom I think you mean, not thanks. If the bottom is the bottom I'm thinking, depends on my mood. Rest assured I'd top at some course of the event.
Bonus: How old were you when you first had a willing sexual experience?
17. A few months shy of 18. I made my decision. Took a week to actually act on it. And shocked the mess outta him. LMAO good times.
TMI Tuesday #150
1. When was the last time someone hit on you? What went down?
Sunday. Not a damn thing. He is married and just joking (well I'm not taking him seriously) and she was a lesbian (not even an option.)
2. If you were single and could be with any one person, who would it be (thinking singer/actor or someone famous here, but whatever)?
I am single and the "whatever" person just needs to clear his damn calendar! (am I angry? lol) But I digress. Will Smith but Jada must stay home. Morris Chestnut and Jaime Foxx (individually) but only so I can lay my head on their chest after. I have a thing for broad chests.
3. Have you ever had done anything sexual in your office or your place of employment?
Not while I was employed there and that's ALL I'mma say about that!
4. Do you apologize when you make a mistake? How do you react when someone calls you out?
Usually. I've been a big girl about that lately. If I'm called out and it's reasonable, I'll put up a bit of a defensive/explanation, but I end up apologizing, trying to get the other person to see my point and making up someway. I'm not above being wrong. Just doesn't happen that often *smirk*
5. Top or bottom? Bonus (as in optional):
If the bottom is the bottom I think you mean, not thanks. If the bottom is the bottom I'm thinking, depends on my mood. Rest assured I'd top at some course of the event.
Bonus: How old were you when you first had a willing sexual experience?
17. A few months shy of 18. I made my decision. Took a week to actually act on it. And shocked the mess outta him. LMAO good times.
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