the one where i want him . . . .

. . . but we have impeccably horrible timing. i dunno if he even reads these anymore. if he does, make it known that he's ready by reciprocating photogenically . . . . (freudian. i meant to say photographically lol)

(eta after answering the questions: these questions are a bit weaker that the usual TMI tuesday. c'mon people. give me a reason to divulge and overshare!!!)

1. What do find is the most exciting part of a new sexual encounter?
the buildup, the expectation, the learning, the fumbling, and the expectation of doing it again . . . in 30 minutes. lol

2. Do you have "a most exciting part of a sexual encounter" with a usual partner?
yea. we used to try to 'one up' each other. he'd talk smack and i'd shut him up or he'd ask me questions at moments when i couldn't formulate a sentence if you paid me. a good time was had by all!

3. How open and honest are you about your life with someone you just met?
as open as the situation requires. i'm usually good about reading people's need to know level. although i have felt the need to tell something that explains the hows and whys of me but we haven't exactly crossed that bridge yet. he might recoil.

4. How open and honest are you about your life with someone you work with?
again, need to know basis. i play certain things close to the vest.

5. How open and honest are you about your life with a casual acquaintance who lives in your neighborhood (or the parent a your child's friend or...)?
damnit how many times are we gonna rephrase the same question. same rules apply.
i only TMI those i know and oh anyone with internet access and time to kill reading blogs lol

Bonus (as in optional): Define a "normal" as in "normal relationship" or "normal sex life".
normal is so subjective and relative. my normal relationship needs to be redefined. my normal sex life needs to be more frequent.